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Tracy Marander (Kurt's [first?] girlfriend):

I know that some people will say that I treated Kurt maternally, took care of him, but I like to think it was more trying to nurture him, rather than take care of him.
Try to nurture who he was and try to get him to--let him do his art, let him do his music, and encourage him to get better at it as opposed to trying to stifle it. But also not try to be a mom, but trying to be a nurturing girlfriend. Or friend.

We met at a party. You know, I liked him, I had a crush on him. And then finally somebody told him, 'Don't you get that she likes you?' or something, cause he was just kind of clueless about it, you know.

I liked that he was funny. He made me laugh. He wasn't afraid to be goofy or silly. But mostly we just had a good time hanging out.

-2015, Montage of Heck film

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quote of the day

"God is gay and so am I."
-Kurt
Journals (hardcover ed.), pg. 123
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The Suicide Of Kurt Cobain: A Victim Of The Binary And Biphobia?

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